I BELIEVE WITH WHAT I HAD CHOSEN!

one thing that make me very depressed is when my big family cannot accept my mate for unacceptable reason ( I think ). what they want is only a partner/mate that equal with me, someone whom they called 'high-class'. 
I know in this life we cannot live only with LOVE, but we also need money. I realize that. but they cannot put it as a main reason to force me to find another guy.
I realize it.. really realize.. I admit it, that I was looking for a guy who had a complete criteria for an ideal guy, the important things we search in every guy seed, environment, weight, in Indonesia we called it, 'bibit bebet bobot'. but once I have a guy who can make me feel comfort and safe around him, those criterias was gone. I know those criterias that can guarantee a prosperity in my future, but that's not come first anymore. prosperity is not always measured by those criterias. though he doesn't come from a rich family, his level is below me, but as long as he can lead me to the right direction and he can make me a better person than before, I think that's enough. level can grow not only by education, there's many ways to make it to be 'high-level'. 
so in this point, I just wanna say that we have to believe of what we've decided. do not bother of what people say or think. maybe they're right, cuz they wanna see us happy. so perhaps you have to listen to them, then filter it which one is good for you, and which one is not.
my decision right now is I BELIEVE WITH WHAT I HAD CHOSEN!